Obituary of David L. Jones

David L. Jones 43, of Syracuse, NY passed away Friday, May 3, 2013 atCrouse Hospital, Syracuse, NY with his family by his side. David was born April 5, 1970 in Cortland, NY the son of Christine Spano Jones and the late David A. Jones. He graduated from Cortland High School in 1988 and SUNY Potsdam in 1993. In addition to his mother David is survived by his partner Tim Capwell of Syracuse, and his loving companions Snoopy and Jake; his uncle James Spano of Cortland, aunts and uncles, Sally and Dick Lansdowne of Homer, Arla and Tony Camillo of Cortland; Janice Jones of Cortland; and many cousins. At the familys request there will be no calling hours or services David had a love of animals and contributions in his memory can be made to the Hubbards Hounds Dog Rescue, PO BO Box 113 Homer, N.Y 13077 To offer online condolences visit www.wright-beard.com Ms. Jones (and Tim) I'm so very sorry for your loss. Sending my deepest sympathy & Hugs. All the years being neighbors in Cortland - our childhoods intertwined, the stories were once a source of laughter and now have become treasured memories. I always remembered Dave telling me "Lizzy, you are the best little sister ever!" and I would say back "Yeah, well you have the best Mom in town, because she works in the library!" David was a great friend and peer. His best quality aside from his creativity and artistic abilities was most assuredly his ability to bring out the best (and true colors) of other people. Ms Jones, Thank you so very much for giving me and others the time we did have with Dave. You raised one of the finest young men I know! I can't even begin to tell you how many ways he has made a positive impact on the lives of others. He makes up a very large and important part of my life history and deserves credit for helping mold the person I've become. I hope you are able to find peace and tranquility real soon. Please~ If there is anything, anything at all, I'm available. Even if you would just like to talk or hear some good ole' stories, or maybe just revisit the early days (back when you had the clan of us as your longtime neighbors) :) I would certainly love to reminisce when the time is right. I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers. With Love, Elizabeth Wheeler Cavanagh (AKA: Lizzy Wheeler) So sorry for your loss. Davey was a great friend, and he was never afraid to be himself. He was so full of life, and always had a smile on his face. He will be missed greatly. Tim, if you need anything, please let us know. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Tina Kalbus-Smith I went to high school with Davey and he was a wonderful person to know. I recently reconnected with him bia facebook and loved all his recipes and paintings that he did. I especially loved talking with him about his dogs how he loved them so. Tim I send my condolences to you and to Davey's mom. It's nice to know that he has no more pain and is dancing freely up in the clouds and is painting great sunsets for us to look at. Jodi Sherry I wish I could eloquent at this time, but I fear there are no words that can alleviate the pain you are feeling now. I can say this though, Davey, whether he knew it or not played a large part in making me the man I am today. He was my neighbor in Potsdam, and we had many friends in common, Many time I wished I could be more like him unafraid to be myself. As time went on I was able become comfortable in my own skin, much because of his early influence. Davey was very much loved, and his passing robs this world of a great man and friend. Darin Bastedo David was a long time friend and eventhough we had lost touch after high school and only re-connected many years ago I am heartbroken over this. David was an exceptional person who taught all those he came in contact with the true meaning of compassion and also not to judge others. I know that he is in a much better place and is watching over all of those that he loved. My condolences to to his family. I Love You my friend and you will be greatly missed by all of those who knew you. Christine Griffith I'm so sorry David is gone. There are no words. My heart is broken. I hope you can find comfort in knowing that so many people loved him so very much. Ruth My thoughts go out to David's family and Tim at Davey's sudden passing. I had the opportunity to have gone to school with him at SUNY Potsdam. I will always remember him for his wit, willingness to take a stand for things he believed in, his artwork, love of animals, plants, and food. He will be missed by many, but never forgotten. Chris Prue Davey was a great friend. I and anyone else who knew him are far better for it. May he rest in peace. Kristopher Buchan So deeply saddened by the passing of this wonderful man. He was a dear friend, a loving soul, and his sincere kindness will live on in our hearts. My heartfelt condolences to Tim, Davey's mom, and his other family members and friends. Cindy Sloan Dear Mrs. Jones and Tim, Words can't express the sorrow I feel about Davey's passing. He was the first friend I ever made when we moved to Cortland.He was never afraid to be who he was and I loved him for that.My heart goes out to you,his family. Just know he was loved by many and I consider myself honored to have known such a great and wonderful man.-Candy K. Beardsley (Kelsey) Dear Bunny, Jim, Tim and everyone who loved and was loved by Davey, I am so very sorry for your loss. I am heartbroken without the words to express the shock and sorrow I am feeling so, I can only imagine your suffering. I hope Davey's ever present smile and his love of everyone and everything will help ease your pain. Davey was such a vibrant person. A truly caring and loving soul. I witnessed only kindness and compassion from him and always admired the way he shared his life with everyone. Although his life has been much too short, I believe he touched many hearts. I know he will always hold a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of the family. May Davey rest in peace. My deepest condolences, Anne Chris, I am so sorry for the loss of your son David. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Cindy & Joe Abdulla The curtain rose Hello Kitty Dances Unicorns Paints, Pets and Plants Zombies A little mouse, treasured since youth Love and Hugs for all who cared Way too soon the show was over All who knew him were left craving more RelevÃĩ on into eternity. Debra J. Lansdowne My deepest sympathy for your loss. Davey was a lovely person and is deeply missed. I hope that you all find peace and healing. Tobi This is from my Facebook tribute... Every uncool and unliked kid dreams of one friend who never cares what other kids think. My friend took his devotion to friendship one step further by doing all of my homework and taking notes for me in the eighth grade when I broke my arm and wrist. I will forever miss you Davey Louis Jones. Your friendship has meant more to me than you could have ever known. Tim, I am so happy you were in his life and was able to love him without limit. I don't care how trivial you think the task is, if you need something call me. Ms. Jones, for bringing this very special man into the world, I can never repay the debt for that one special gift that will never be forgotten. William "Billy" Wood Dear Mrs. Jones, I send you my deepest sympathy on the loss your son David. You raised a wonderful sweet son. Amazingly talented, kind, and a wonderful friend. He adored his mother and grandmother, he spoke to us about you often. I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your wonderful contribution to the world in the form of this good man. Also, Tim told us how kind and considerate you have been of him during this ordeal, and it says something about your boundless kindness that you think of others during a time of devastating personal grief. We carry a little of Davey with us all the time, and that is a gift from you. Thank you. I hope you find peace and joy in your memories of David, as we do. ~ Charlene Wheeler To Davey's mom, Tim, and all of his dear family and friends: My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I am deeply saddened by the loss of Davey. He was a wonderful artist, a loyal friend, and a gentle soul. He will be greatly missed. Melissa A White This goes out to the family and loved ones of Davey, especially his beautiful Mom (Bunny) and most loving life partner Tim. Davey was an AMAZING man. He never ceased to amaze me with his talents and love of his family and friends. He showed true compassion and passion. He embraced the world before him and showed it that he was up to the challenge whatever was thrown his way. The thing that stands out to me most was his love and understanding for ALL whom passed his way and it didn't matter the differences or their challenges or strengths, he treated them ALL as he would want to be treated. My greatest friend he was, my understanding and listening ear he was. Most of all a friend that ANYONE could stride to be like. He is and was an AWESOME person. He will be sadly missed by MANY but most of all, he will be remembered fondly by us all. Love, prayers, and hugs sent to all! With deepest sympathy but most of all LOVE to all whom knew and loved this WONDERFUL MAN! Love ya Davey and I will ALWAYS remember the joy you brought to me and my kids. Hugs and God Speed! Teena Brayen Dear Bunny - I'm shocked and saddened by this news. Your son was wonderful and creative. I'm clinging to a vision of Davey with Ophelia and Iago and Mr. Turtle back with his beloved Aunt Frances and Grandma Spano. Davey will always have a place in my heart. I'm sure he has found peace. Fondly, Rich Couch I am so sorry to hear of Davey's passing. I wish positive energy for his family and friends. Davey was in my class in high school. I knew him and liked him, but we were not really that close at that time as our paths seldom crossed. Over the past few years, though, I can honestly say I came to love him. Davey was a frequent poster on Facebook and was someone who used the medium the right way to the best of its potential. It seems weird to say that we became close through a website, but that is a testament to Davey's welcoming soul. He truly shared who he was openly through good times and rough times and set an example for us all. His intelligence and humor were always refreshing. Last week was a trying week for me to be certain. I was laid off from my job of thirteen years which created a good deal of anxiety. I had also recently learned that another young friend had fallen into a coma due to a heart condition. What happened to Davey was kind of a "last straw" event that really forced me into introspection. His passing was sudden and horrible, but I am not ashamed to say it helped me put my feelings into perspective. Through hardship, new beginnings are born. I think he is someone who would appreciate that and would be pleased that even in death, he inspired others. I recall Davey being miserable when he worked in a difficult situation at a television station. He debated long and hard about leaving and finally made the right choice for him. Looking back now, with what has happened, I see clearly that tough life decisions need to be made so we can grow as human beings. Life is unpredictable and I am so proud that Davey, with Tim's support, was strong enough to move forward. We can all learn from that and must learn from it to honor his spirit. Dave had posted this on March 22nd: "I was told that I'm very sad. That my melancholy drains the life out of the people around me. WTF? Get over it. I've been through a lot over the past two+ years. And will be through much more I'm sure, but I still remain optimistic about my life and where it's headed. I'm not here to drain the life out of you, I'm here to encourage, love and bring you forward." I could not agree more. RIP Davey. Brian Powers To Mrs. Jones, Tim and all of his family. I was shocked to hear of Davey's Passing. I am so very sorry for your loss. I was his high school art teacher and enjoyed working with him so much. While I have not seen him for some years it was great to reconnect with Davey on Facebook. He will be missed by everyone. Georgia Lane My name is Jane Dunn. David & I were classmates and friends during high school. We graduated from Cortland Jr Sr High in 1988;kept in touch;lost touch;reconnected;lost touch again and connected again. David was a wonderful friend to me. I loved his insight, his art (I still have the drawing he made of me in one of my yearbooks!)and his kindness as a human being. I will miss him very much & will always love him.