Obituary of Richard F. Scheffler

Richard F. Dick Scheffler Sr, 69, of E. River Rd. Cortland passed away unexpectedly on Sat. March 5 at St. josephs Hospital in Syracuse. He was born Feb. 21, 1942 in Buffalo, NY, the son of Raymond and Evelyn Steiner Scheffler Sr. He has been an area resident for many years. Dick was a graduate of Frontier High School in Buffalo in 1960. He was then drafted by the US Army in 1964 until his discharged in 1967. Dick then married his wife Kathleen May in 1968. He then went to work for the NY State Police for many years. Dick was a Life Member and very active member in the Cortland Elks BPOE 748, where he served five terms as the Exalted Ruler and was the current Exalted Ruler. In his spare time he enjoyed golfing, hunting, and bowling, but his greatest joy was sharing special times with his grandchildren. He was greatly loved and will be greatly missed. Dick is survived by his wife Kathleen of 42 years, son Richard Jr. of Cortland, daughter Dawn (Jeffrey) Benjamin of Virgil, mother Evelyn of Buffalo, sister Shirley (Raymond) Worgo of Alabama, grandchildren David and Danielle, several nieces, nephews, cousins, and brother and sister in-laws. He was predeceased by his father Raymond Sr., brothers Raymond Jr. and Ronald. Calling hours will be held 4-8 pm Wednesday at Wright-Beard Funeral Home, 9 Lincoln Ave., Cortland. There will be an Eleven Oclock Hour memorial service on Thursday at the Cortland Elks Club. Contributions in Dicks name may be directed to the Elks National Foundation, 2750 N. Lakeview Ave., Chicago, IL 60614-2256 or American Red Cross, 111 Port Watson St. , Cortland. To offer condolences online, visit www.wright-beard.com Kathy, So sorry to hear about Dick's passing. He was a good friend who I played golf with for many years. I enjoyed working at Ithaca when he was in Cortland. I am currently wintering in Ocala, Fla and am sorry that I cannot attend the service. You and Dick will be in my prayers. Jimmy Carter So sorry to hear of Dick's passing. I remember him well from the time I was a Uniform Trooper at SP Ithaca. Also from many Elk's Lodge functions he attended. William H Standinger III The Members of The Central New York Chapter of former New York State Troopers have offered a donation to the Elks National Foundation in memory of "Dick" who was a respected member of our organization. M.A. Gilmour, Treasurer C.N.Y. Chapter, A.F.N.Y.S.T. My sincerest condolences to Kathy and the family. Dick was a great guy and an oustanding Elk. He will be missed. Jim Ochsner PER Fort Myers FL Mrs. Scheffler, My name is Barry Cronin. You and I have met only once very briefly. I only knew your husband 24 hours. It was the last 24 hours of his life. I was his room mate at St. joseph's hospital. In that short period of time, under those stressful conditions, we formed a little bond. I feel that if we had known each other earlier in life we would have been good friends. On that day we found we were both watching the same TV show, "Holmes on Holmes". We started talking about how we liked the show and the need to watch out for unscrupulous contractors. He told me a story about your oil heat vendor and a very expensive upgrade they said you needed and how you and he had fought back and found a new, less expensive supplier. He ended his story with the remark that the old vendor tried to get your business back but "my wife told him where to go!" I could see in his eyes and in his smile how proud he was of you and the life and family you had built together. And then, sitting there with smile of his face, he simply passed away. No pain, no suffering, just good thoughts floating through his head. Please also know that the hospital nurses and doctors did everything they could. I have never witnessed such a quick, caring and vital response. I know Richard is with God in heaven now and I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers and may God give you the strength to carry on his legacy with the family you built together. Barry Cronin Rich play football for me when i started at Frontier in 1955 and was also a student in class. He often soppoed to see me when he returned to the area. He was a great kid and I'm sure he carried the same traits thru life God Bless . Edwin O'Reilly We will always remember Dickie's great personality and wonderful sense of humor, and are grateful for having had the opportunity to see him at our 50th reunion last summer. Our deepest condolences to Kathy and all of his family. Frontier Central Class of 1960 Please accept our sincere sympathy for your loss with the passing of Dick. He will be sorely missed by a great number of friends and family. Peter & Jerre Arteaga Dear Kathy, Dawn, and family, So sorry to hear of Dick's passing. He was a long time icon in the Cortland community and he will be missed by many who knew him. Please know we are thinking of you in your time of sorrow. Sincerely, Karen (Bradshaw) Reome Dear Kathy and Family, I was so very sorry to hear of the passing of Dick. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prays. Terry Stevens Had the privilege of working with young Trooper Scheffler many years ago. Dick had a warm smile, a great personality and was a fine Trooper. My condolences to the Scheffler family. Wayne E. Beyea Will never forget Rich's favorite "FOR THE GOOD TIMES" That is his song!!! We are sadden and our thoughts and prayers are with you Kathy, Richie, Dawn and Rich's Mom . The Skis Many memories of Richard growing up in the neighborhood. He was a Blasdell guy. I am pleased to have talked with him back in January when he was home. God be with his whole family. Karen Schofer Abel Dear Aunt Kathy, Rich, Dawn and family: I am grateful for my last memory of Uncle Rich where I gave him a hug and told him I loved him in Gram's hallway - a big guy in a little area! Rest in Him and he will give you the strength, and you will mount up with wings as eagles. We will be praying for your strength and comfort as the seasons move on. Jeremiah 29:11-13. Love, the Wisconsin Schefflers Kathy and family, our deepest condolences in your recent loss. I had the pleasure of working with Dick back in the 70s. He was a great guy and always brought a lot of laughter into the squad room. His dedication to the Cortland Elks is second to no one. You should be proud of him and his contributions to the State Police and the Cortland community. Gary P. Allen and family To the Scheffler Family: I am at a loss for words as probably most with Rich's passing. It was not that long ago that I was at the wake for his brother Ray. I did not get a chance to talk to Rich and it was many, many years since I had last seen him. The Lord has blessed me with poetry and I wrote this poem for the Scheffler family. Sadly today I have added Rich's name to the poem. Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss and praise God for his life and the short time he touched mine as he did so many. God Bless Remembering the Scheffler?s So many, many years ago, when I was oh so young, there would be the Scheffler?s helping others and having fun. Ray Sr. was our youth leader, Ron and Ray drove the church van?s. No matter what you needed, look to the Scheffler?s, for they were the men. Now as the time has passed by so quickly, Ray Sr., Ron and Ray Jr. has been called home. They are now together with Jesus, leaving us unfortunately all alone. So lets remember the good times, let our tears be just a few, one day we will all be together, for now all I can say is ?thank you?! Yes, thank you Ray Sr., Rich and also to the Scheffler twins, I will always remember your kindness, and yes, those Scheffler grins! E. P. Shagott 3/10/2011 Dear Kathy and Family.... please accept my most sincere condolences. All our prayers are with you this week. Edward Seales Sorry to hear Of Dick's Death, We came on the SP together in 1968. I was sent to Ithaca, Dick to Cortland. Worked with Dick alot and enjoyed his company. Remember attending a Party at the "Rabbit Farm" many years ago. Dick will be missed ! William "Bill" Bean Kathy and Family, we were very sorry to hear about Richard, he will be sorryly missed at the family reunions and please always remember the good times that you's had for he will always watch over you all.. God Bless all of you and take care Jody & Bob Lee