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Jonathan Herwick posted a condolence
Friday, May 15, 2020
Derek was a very sincere and down to earth human being. He did what was right, regardless of inconvenience to himself. Very selfless. Indeed that is conveyed easily through the time I spent with him. Truth and honesty, always knew what you were going to get. Thanks Derek, you are missed.
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Sam Fish lit a candle
Thursday, February 14, 2019
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Sam Fish posted a condolence
Thursday, February 14, 2019
To all the Family, I wish my deepest sympathy in this time of loss.
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Cheryl Bateman Wyatt posted a condolence
Thursday, February 14, 2019
Dear Kathy and Gene and Family,
We are all (including Uncle Howard Bateman) so very sorry to have heard of Derek's passing on to his Heavenly home. We Pray that God comforts you all during this most difficult time. Much Love, Cheryl & Roger Wyatt and Family
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James Ochsner posted a condolence
Friday, February 8, 2019
Sincerest condolences to family and friends. RIP.
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Lynne Van De Weert posted a condolence
Friday, February 8, 2019
My condolences to the family. Derek was my son's (Christopher) hockey coach when he played for the Cortland Hockey Association many years ago. He was a great mentor and friend to all the players. He enjoyed teaching them to be better human beings. It was truly a fun experience. He will be missed by all that new him. Sincerely, Lynne Van De Weert
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Karen Williams lit a candle
Thursday, February 7, 2019
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I am so very very sorry for your families. Many prayers of strength to you.
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Matthew Johnson posted a condolence
Thursday, February 7, 2019
Nicole, Gene, Aunt Kathy, Brett, Harrison. I love Derek Barnes. I find it impossible to remember any part of my childhood without picturing Derek. Before Tyler was born, I grew up as an only child. Derek was my big brother and best friend. Our parents were cops, and his home felt like mine. Derek and I were most at home when the police scanner was always playing in the background 24-7, and we would play Atari/Nintendo/Sega and watch Cops to fine tune our instincts, as we assumed we’d follow in our parents’ noble career.
Derek and I were lucky to share a brief moment on New Year’s Eve. And what I saw that night gives me the only comfort I have at the moment. It was so good to see Derek so in love and for it to be so obvious that Nicole adored and loved him. Happiest I’ve seen him.
Nicole, Katie and I will be there for you and Cole and Harrison.
Matthew and Katie Johnson
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Ronald Eastman & Judy posted a condolence
Thursday, February 7, 2019
Kathy & Gene, so very sorry for the loss of your son. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this terrible time.
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Thursday, February 7, 2019
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To the Barnes family,
So sorry to hear this sad news. Always had a great time "dickering" with him on a car at Nissan. Again, our condolences.
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Gay Poppe posted a condolence
Thursday, February 7, 2019
Dear Kathy, Gene, Brett, Harrison, Annie, Gino,
I can still picture little Derek running around the trailer playing with big brother Brett and my two kids. He was the cutest, happiest little boy! So of course he would grow up to be a wonderful man and loving father.To all of you I share your grief, and pray for you. Until you meet again, cherish your memories.. Love you! Gay
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Kathy Russell Homer Riese posted a condolence
Thursday, February 7, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that I hold you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy
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Thursday, February 7, 2019
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Julie Easton lit a candle
Thursday, February 7, 2019
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Paul Romaninsky posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
Derek was one of my best friends as a child. He was so upbeat and so funny - We were silly together. We traveled to Ceder Point, OH once as kids to hit the best amusement park in the world and we had the greatest time. It was an amazing road trip. I loved going to his house and staying up too late, playing cards and ordering Pont’s wings as young men. I have so many hockey stories with him in them. He was our goalie.
My thoughts and condolences go out to his family. You were all a bright spot in my life. I am sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Paul
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Jeffry Nicoson posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
No words I write can fill the hole in your heart from being broken and torn by the loss of a Son, your child. We all pray we go before them, our children.God wanted him, to join with him. We know not why, and we question our faith sometimes, it's our nature. Remain strong in the Lord...pray...he will answer...he will assuage your heart, your grief, and pain. Belief and faith is all. Love....and memories. Jeffry
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Joe & Maria Quinlan posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
We offer our heartfelt condolences to everyone in the Barnes family and their friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God keep Derek close and give him eternal rest. Special prayers for Kathy and Gene.
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Cheryl Michales posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
Derek came into our lives when our son Eric worked at Royal Nissan. He and Eric have stayed friends from that point on. Then he started dating our good friend's daughter Nicole. We were so happy for both of them. Derek always helped his customers out and did it with professionalism and a smile. He helped our son Brent to lease a car a year ago and remained a close friend to our family. We were blessed to have shared even a short part of his life. Hold tight to your memories all of you and know that he is always looking down on all of you. Sincerely,
Tom, Cheryl, Eric and Brent Michales
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David & Kara Ford posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
To Derek’s loved ones, We are praying for you all and will continue to as you face such a difficult journey ahead. Rest In Peace, Derek.
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Jonathan Gesin posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
My heart goes out to you guys. Derek was so much fun to talk to and just hang out with over coffee at the Nissan dealership. He was warm, caring, funny, trustworthy, just an all around great guy.
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Linda Stockton lit a candle
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
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I can't even imagine the loss of a child. I am so sorry Gene and Kathy, I can't find the words. RIP Derek
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Emily Liepke posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
So incredibly sorry for your loss. Please know that Derek touched many lives in so many positive ways. Mine included. He was a great friend and provided me advice and comfort when I needed it, when I was having a hard time dealing with cancer. He always seemed to have a joke or smile for whatever the problem was. He always would tell me to "stay positive" and to "remember to live!". His advice and our chats provided me with relief when I was struggling.
Derek was also a great resource and friend with our car club as well, I know that we all enjoyed our many car talks and shows he was able to attend. His kind, gentle nature and smile will be missed by us all.
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Andy Seyfried posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
I am so devastated by your loss, a terrible tragedy happening to your entire family, and words seem so ineffective at a time like this. I cannot fathom having the sudden loss of one of my 2 children as you are now suffering through. I know the strength of the bonds of friendship, the unity of family and the arm of our Lord and Savior will help you through the pain and suffering. In that, I hurt with you. May God now be Derek’s close friend and companion above and share his Love on the family Derek has left here until there is a reuniting once again down the road. For now, you surely have some forever memories. Andy
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Tonya Van Auken posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
So very sorry to hear of Derek's passing. He was a kind soul who will be missed by many. Thoughts and prayers to you all during this very difficult time. Fly high big D. You will be missed!
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Dot Eastman Watts posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 6, 2019
Kathy and Gene, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I will be thinking of you during this very difficult time. Love and prayers for you and your family.
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Denise Clappier posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
To Brett and the Barnes Family,
My condolences for the loss of Derek.
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Lesa Eastman Townsend posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
Kathy and Gene, I am so sorry for your loss, my prayers as you face the days ahead.
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Christine Brown posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
So sorry for your loss. Derek was a wonderful man and his absence will be missed. Thinking of all during this difficult time.
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Ed and Connie Stone posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
Kathy and Gene Barnes and Family; we are so sorry for your loss. This will be the hardest day of your life burying your youngest child. We have been in your shoes , 8 yrs. this Oct 5 when Keith passed like Derek very suddenly.
You will remember all the wonderful things you did with him as a child and in his growing years, when his son was born and what was to be the start of another family unit to bring you joy.
We will keep you all in our prays today and tomorrow. Someday's are very hard even today after all this time, Ed and I still talk about Keith.
Sincerely, Ed and Connie Stone
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Abby Withey posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
I am so very sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. With sympathy, Abby Withey
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Lisa & Mark Sassman posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
To the Barnes' family: We are all thinking of you and lifting you in prayer. May God provide his comfort and care to all of you at this time. ❤️ Mark, Lisa, Mark and Mike Sassman
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Dan Brooks posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
My sincere condolences to all the Barnes family. My thoughts are prayers are with you all. I've known Derek since Elementary School as he was born the day before I was. What a great friend and person to everyone.You will be missed my friend!
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Jaclyn And Patrick Sweeney posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
Kathy and family, Pat and I are so very very sorry for your loss.Our prayers are with you all.
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Deb Andrews posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
Gene and Kathy,- I am so very sorry for your loss. I remember him when he was very small. So sweet!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
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Gary and Sally valentine posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
We have known Derek for many yrs. He and our son David have been best friends
all of their lives. When they were younger, if my son wasn’t over there, Derek
was over here. They both grew up to be exceptional young men. My son will miss him very much, and as for us, we feel as if we have lost a second son. Our prayers
will be with you all at this time, and may the Lord watch over you when you need him most.
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Dave Valentine posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
Derek was a best friend and brother to me who I’ve known since we were little. So many wonderful memories. I will miss him until we see each other again.
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Janet Gillman posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
You will be missed by everybody who knew you. I was proud to call you my nephew. I know you are now in the hands of the Lord and will always be at peace.
Love,
Aunt Janet
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Baldassarre Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
My condolences to the family and our thoughts and prayers are with all of you!
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Dawn Simmons posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
While I only got the pleasure of seeing Derek every couple years at family reunions, I sincerely looked forward to our chats. They were always full of fun stories that we had experienced and our senses of humor gelled so well! He was easy to talk to and always left me smiling and happier than the moment before our talk. One thing I know for sure, he loved his family dearly and I know he will be the best guardian angel for Nicole, Cole, Harrison, Gene, Kathy, Brett, Annie, and Gino. He will be missed greatly, but not forgotten. RIP Derek❤️
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Ray and Mickey Sandoval posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
Our deepest condolences to you and your family! Our prayers are with you for the days ahead!
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mileah elder posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
Although I did not know him for a very long time, I realized his great stature paled in comparison to the size of this heart. My most recent image of him was of him folding his arms in to fit into the back seat of a car for a test drive with pair of customers. He closed the door carefully with his hand and smiled. He reminded me of Mr Incredible, such a little car for him, but no complaints. He will be missed and fondly remembered by many.
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Sheri Barber lit a candle
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
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I will miss you my friend. Its just not going to be the same without you. Thoughts and prayer his loved ones.
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Stephanie St John posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
We are not supposed to bury our children. There is nothing as tragic or as heartbreaking. We are thrust into a society we never wanted to be a part of, one that we prayed we'd never know firsthand. And we are forced into a new role as one who has lost a child. You will never be the same person you were before. You'll walk, one foot before the other but it will never feel quite the same. They say it's your "new normal". It may be new but it sure doesn't feel normal. Days will continue to come, one after another and we continue because of and for those we still have. It might get easier, but there will be days, years from now when it's as raw as the very first day. I pray you navigate these next few days with love and support of friends and family. Love, Stephanie
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Jess Cruz posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
My memories of backyard shenanigans, riding down MainStreet with rap music blasting in the MINIVAN (like all cool parents do), being his #1 & Erika being his #2 (cherry chapstick), Goldschlagger, texting across the table from each other, laughing and joking til the wee hours, watching Derek sprinting and hurdling dogs when my smoke alarm went off while our dinner was cooking & sooo many more ...... I will always hold close to my heart! ❤️❤️Derek you were an amazing man and friend and I will miss you dearly!!!
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Bob Pace posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 5, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. Be comforted by your memories of Derek as he will always be there with you through them. Rest In Peace Derek.
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Tuesday, February 5, 2019
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